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ANXIETY AND SEXUAL DESIRE: ANXIETY AND SELF-DOUBT ABOUT YOUR SEXUAL ATTRACTIVENESS OR ADEQUACY
First-time sexual encounters are so anxiety provoking because they are accompanied by a long list of questions that you can't answer by yourself. Questions like: Does this person find me sexually attractive? Will this person think I'm fast and easy if I say yes or that there's something wrong with me if I say no? Will this person lose interest in me if I don't have sex or abandon me once I do? What will this person expect of me sexually? Will he or she want me to do things I don't feel comfortable doing? What if this person has had lots of attractive, terrific lovers and I don't measure up? How will our relationship change if sex is added? How will I deal with contraception? Is it physically safe to be sexual with this person?
Just reading these questions is mind-boggling, so it's easy to understand how anxious you are going to feel when you try to answer them while at the same time trying to figure out if you want to or are, in fact, expected to have sex, and whether you actually will. Of course, ISD can answer all of those questions for you, especially if you become so anxious that you go on red alert and shut down your sexual desire.
In addition, you may feel anxiety and self-doubt about your sexual attractiveness or adequacy. In fact, when you are faced with the prospect of being sexual with someone for the first time, it may seem as if every demon that has ever whispered self-doubts in your ear starts screaming at the top of its lungs. That was certainly what happened to Rachel, who, like many women, believed that in order to attract a suitable partner, she had to be physically beautiful and not too successful, assertive, or opinionated. And even women who fit the media and fantasy standard of attractiveness can feel insecure in new sexual situations, wondering if their partners like them for themselves or just their external appearance.
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